Do not date! Same room, same bed you are not legally separated. Brother you need to be careful if you want to protect yourself financially and emotionally. That is not detaching either. Dating is a no-no for several reasons. Legal, but also for you! Believe me, I know how lonely that can be. Until at least legally separated, do not date. Until you are really ready, do not date. It is not fair for yourself, kids or the other person(s) to mix emotions like that. You will also later on be happy with yourself that your integrity is high. As far as after D, everyone is different in that regard. You will want some counselled help. You are still married if in same room and bed. Talk to lawyer about this too. Maybe a counsellor too and see best way this can change or help it work. Did you connect with a DB coach?
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
