OK. once again, go on a field trip and get the book NO MORE MR NICE GUY
Im proud of you for the bedroom stance- some additional polish would have been nice. Fartiltre nailed it in his last paragraph (above)
BUT...Whats done is done - NO GUILT!!!!!!!!!!!
I really hope you stick with this because you are going to find that your wifes current actions are actually saving your arse. Its going to get so tough- but your worth it
So, why do you think you drank?
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13