thanks M. I needed that. I talked with my Sis some today about the L and about the M. She reminded me that we've been feeling pretty bad for a while now. She reminded me that my W has been taking steps away from me for a number of years for no particular reason. There wasn't something overtly wrong. She said perhaps she just wants a different kind of M than you. that is not a fix it kind of thing..." My W has generally been cool and distant unless there was something she really wanted from the marriage. She always wanted more of her own life. I wanted more closeness. She really isn't that kind of person.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14