Met with L. he put my mind at ease that my family is not in financial danger by me sitting quietly for some time to see what develops. He encouraged and praised me for trying to stand for my marriage. He told me that he was here to help in the event that reconciliation was not something I could achieve. he asked what else W and I had tried.
W entered the house today while I was here, although she didn't tell me she was in the house and was kind o quiet about it. I found her in our room taking more clothes along to her new place. I remarked with small talk about getting some more things...She was irritated and said "....yeah, I'm getting some more of my clothes....."
she's like a stranger. she also made sure that D13 shadowed her in the room so that she was not alone. ugh.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
