I need some quick advise...my wife and I have been seperated for a month but still living together. We'll she recently has been bringing up and asking about my plans to move out. I have told her I respect her request, but I am not moving out. I told her I was standing on the promises of God, and I would be staying and fighting for my family. It's her and I and our three children(3,6,12) She also requested we split our finances so that the money I'm spending on counciling is not coming out of "her" money. So this morning I text her to let her know one more of my checks would be depositing into the account, but I would be making arraignments to have things changed before next week in regards to getting my own account.
Her response was this, "Ok. I know we don't agree on how to proceed right now, I also know that things take time to become a habit: you are on your way to starting a new habit- if and when it becomes evident that you've left your old ways and actions in the past I feel that we may be able to move forward. Anyone can put on a front for a little while, but honest change takes time."
My response was that I respected what she said and appreciated what she said...
What does this mean?????? Is she just making me think that ther is a better chance of us making it if I move out. Is she being munipulitive to get me out of the house?
