Blues - No one really knows about my H's A. I told one friend. I think that my H may have told his single guy friend because I know that the friend, my H and OW have hung out together at bars. My H's parents know that I was pissed about H's relationship with OW, but I am sure that they do not know the details. None of his co-workers officially know, but I assume that there has probably been inappropriate flirting at some points (but I guess that OW flirts with everyone so maybe no one suspects). My H is so protective about this information. He is very concerned about his image and his business. He would die if the information got out. I could do some pretty serious damage if I wanted, but I refuse to stoop to his level.
Man...just thinking about his A and what he has done to me over the last two years makes my heart race. I have told H that if he continues this relationship with the OW in any manner, regardless of what happens in our M, I will not have any type of relationship with him. I cant even get on FB because her picture makes me sick (and I don't even snoop, it does pops up because we have mutual friends). It just $ucks that he has done so much damage and caused so much pain and he still looks like an amazing family man. For months/years, I was desperate for an apology from my H. I now realize that an apology will not mean anything until H ends his relationship/friendship with OW.
I just dont know what makes someone feel so entitled to think that they can cause a huge amount of pain to someone else and just feel no remorse. While I may not be perfect, I have done nothing to my H that justifies what he has done. None of us have
