M - I am not sure what H is planning to do. H said that he thought about moving to a new place, but has not made any plans to do so and/or thought about when it may be. He clearly has not thought about it in detail. He said that he is not sure that he wants to live alone, so maybe he would live with a buddy. I had to point out the fact that we had children who could not sleep there is he was living in the equivalent of a frat house, to which he said "oh, i guess that would not work." Yum - hello - welcome to reality. I swear that he has reverted to his college days. I think that it because all his single guy friends live with roommates in the city, which i know he does not want to do because it is almost an hour from our house. Honestly, I think that he is living in a fanstasy land. He just says that he does not know what to do, but that if I push him to make a decision then he guesses that he would consider getting a place. I told him that I was not pushing him to do anything and dropped the subject.
