labug, thank you so much for updating your story. I'm still trying to get to the point of deciding how much of my life I should give to my xh, but I know it's less than I have been.

Detaching is hard, but I know I have to do it for myself. And it's great to see that doing so doesn't have to mean that there is no chance of reconciling.

I'm so happy for you!

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13