Also 3-How public is his A? Do his coworkers/family/friends know? How does this affect your sitch?

Good points M-life's a party for the WAS right now. It is so annoying how they waltz in like the hero. Thankfully the kids don't realize how they've been abandoned.

My D15 is older. She notices a lot. She is sad and feels abandoned by her father. Whenever she tells him her feelings, he blames me for manipulating her. Ugh!!

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014