It wouldn't be just a "talk". It would be a long dating process to evaluate her character. A look into her history, how she treats her parents, her willingness to communicate directly with me.
I did all those things too. And we got along very well for a number of years. The problem is, when one is 60, the things one swore up and down were the case when one was 25 doesn't have quite the same context.
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Most importantly, there is a spiritual component to it.
If you are both deeply committed, it could certainly help. But it's still no guarantee.
