Blues, you are right. Either way, this svcks. (ha ha, spellcheck changed that to socks.)
My H is out and now thinks he is king of the world. He can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, without considering anyone else, and he is loving it. It certainly doesn't seem like there are any "consequences" to S or D for him. He has way more free time, and when he is with the kids, they worship him because they don't get to see him as much. Also, I am not "in the way" of his being a father.
Back to 3, since this is her thread, after all!
3, you mentioned that your H wants to get his own apartment. If he does that, will he take the boys for overnights, or will he continue to go to the house to see them?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14