When WAs Come Home (Where do we go from here?)

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JJ

Thank you so much for the post, you can't believe how much it helps me to hear how well your sitch worked out. I despritely hope it will work out like that for me.

How did your W react to you telling her you trusted her, but you did not trust her "new friends" especially the guys. Was this something that brought her closer to working with you on the R as she wasn't fearfull of you not trusting her. I really want to tell my W this, but I am not sure how she will react at this point.

I think I can almost see this happening a bit now. See she has distanced herself a bit from her old friends and even some family for the sake of her new friends. She has confided in me that the guy she was staying with during our seperation is really depressed and she kinda got sucked into that. She now doesn't see him much or talk with him because he was bringing her down.

I guess I need to quit going down this tunnel as you are right there ain't no cheese down here. I will do my best "as if" in trusting her until she finally builds it truely back up with me.

I am also hopefull today goes well with her, as her best friend called and needed her (she hasn't spoken much to and she fought for her M in must tougher circumstances). I trust this friend and she helped me through some of the seperation. I think it may help her find again her true friends.

Thanks again so much, I really needed the advise to keep my hopes up.