Originally Posted By: juliegayle
We got the invite to a wedding in his family today. I knew it was coming. I know it is stupid but seeing the invite with our names together in pretty calligraphy made me so sad. I asked him what he wanted to do about it and he just said " I guess I'll go." I hate this.


It is the little things that grab us by the throat.

I'm gonna turn this on it's head a little...

What if you had said "There's an invitation to your relatives wedding" and just left it at that.

You could have RSVP for you (if you want to go)and left him to make up his mind.

Live your life, girl. Let him live his.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss