I seriously have goosebumps reading your update. I just took my ring off a few days ago. It is crazy that two little rings can carry so much emotion. You are a true inspiration
This was a part of my discussion with IC yesterday.
I had thought about what putting our rings back on might be like, should we have a little ceremony, or say some special words.
Nothing would have been more special than this silent declaration. As my IC said, You've wanted this to come from him and here it is.
And now the dark, because we all have it in us: old me would have most probably been unhappy that he had ruined my plans for a ceremony and I would have missed the sweetness of what was.
That's what needing control does for us.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
