I just spoke to my daughter's doctor. I can't force her to see any type of mental health professional - the age for consent in my state is 14. How in the world does a 14 year old know what is best for them?
In any event, the doctor wants to see her and just talk so I am going to try and get my daughter to talk to her.
I'm also going to try and get in to see someone so I can somehow get equipped to deal with this.