Although I know the goal of most people here is to reconcile with their partner, I hope my story is also inspiring because of the changes I made.

The change in me is what I'm most happy about. I'm so much happier inside and feel like a complete person now. Not that codependent Jerry McGuire line-"You complete me!"

I complete myself.

I know that if this doesn't work, I'll be OK.

And on this side of the divide created by a marital breakup, I can say that I'll always be grateful for my H being the catalyst that opened my eyes.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss