labug, thank you for sharing part of your story. When I spoke with my DB coach today, she said she has heard plenty of WASs say this kind of stuff, but very rarely is someone narcissistic enough for it to actually be true. Not that that necessarily helps me - if he figures this one out, he can always go the OW route next.
Melissa, I shared that just to illustrate things change down the road, we feel one way today and next week we may feel differently. Emotions change all the time. We all say stupid things, often to preclude conversation on a painful subject.
I'm not sure where narcissism fits in.
No one knows what your H will do, even him. His statements, while painful to hear, aren't really new information so let that help you get past this.
This where having no expectations comes in.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
