You've got this. As for DB-ing you are awesomesauce!
He is right there in the spectrum for MLC. Just at the lower end. 35-65. He is approaching forty, and many do at this age .
His constant crying is his confusion and depression. By you pulling back, you are allowing him to feel what he needs to feel. You ARE fortunate, for because your marriage hasn't been as long, he doesn't have years of regret nor built up resentment.
You guys have a good chance, if you trust the process.
Sending hugs this wonderfully cold marnin' <3
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
