Ok Bond. I agree. I will this with my db coach 1/9. We set some things in place last month. I have watched for signs of change but have very few positive signs as of today. Time to change things up a little. I just don't know how. I have already told W explicitly that I want us to communicate directly abut when and where the kids are. D13 is pretty much the only one getting time with W b/c she's still interested in horses. If she were not, I feel that wife would jot be interested in her W's much. She's. Already back burnered the other 2 kids. An occasional text or call is what they get. She complains that s12 doesn't. Respond much. I told her he's. Detaching. We all are. I wonder if she thinks we're. All crying over her or what. I don't know her anymore. Shes a nice person but not to me and she's. Not very interested. In my kids unless they ride horses.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14