wife hardens heart-6

[planet]

Thanks MrBond.

I don't think it achieves anything at all myself. It's going to screw up familial relationship between the young and old.

XW herself resents hearing how hurt her mother was by her paternal grandmother. I myself wouldn't like hearing how hurt my father was while growing up continuously. So it's probably not good idea for anyone to lay resentment on the shoulder of others.

I plan to speak to her again on reaching amicable solution to this stalemate. Perhaps after Chinese New Year.
This time I'm going to be very careful.
As of now, visiting my children is not effected.

Is reconciliation on the cards?
Is there cause to 'hope' again?