I know it's worthless to worry about things that may or may not happen... but this thread had my panties in a tangle because it brought to the marquee whether or not I really want what I'm fighting for.
I still don't really know that answer, but I'll wait until I do.
Betsey,
I am totally in this place too. My biggest fear at the moment is that my W has changed into someone that I don't want to be with. I am trying to keep in mind that I am living with an alien and that as she starts to come to terms with her guilt, depression, and selfessness the real W I love will begin to show through.
I just wish she would open up to me more so I could help her with dealing with many of the same fears I have.
God Bless You,
Reuben
Cautiously hopeful and keeping the Momentum
