I know that other people's sitches always look better (grass is greener, right?) but at least you guys have your H in the house (even just some of the time). Even when my H was sleeping downstairs on the couch, at least I had him here. And I saw him a lot. And I could do my 180s and things felt normal and not awkward. And 3, my H won't have any part in tucking kids in here - if he is ever here around bedtime, he leaves the second it gets close. The funny part is, every time he walks in the door to get the kids, he unzips his jacket and takes off his shoes, as if he's coming in and is going to stay. Then I shove the kids at him and he zips back up and puts the shoes back on. He's a dork. smile

Blues, what are you drinking tonight? I am sick so I stuck with limeade, but you can still clink with it!


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14