I picked up on your thread and am just working to catch up on your sitch. I won't bug you with questions until I get through it but wanted to go ahead and offer encouragement. I'm 3 1/2 years post-BD with a W who has depression and has handled it in some pretty destructive ways. We're doing the room mate thing as well but in different rooms. Your posts bring back a lot of memories of not knowing what I'd be coming home to; a messy house or uber-organized. A W whose 2 to 3 days in bed, always being ready to fix meals or do whatever was needed. It's a lot.
You're right. You could be in a sitch to be doing all that anyway so doing what you can do can be therapeutic. I'm a slow reader so it may take me a while to catch up but again, just wanted to say "hi" and hope you're doing well in the new year.
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
