Ok all kidding aside, I realize I didn't explain my concerns properly.
Perhaps there's someone who went through this before and tell me if I'm wrong. I assumed she would warm up to me, want to spend time with me, have some sort of emotional turn around before we started having sex. This isn't happening.
This is pretty much a booty call. She has no interest in dating, hanging out, nothing like that. Is this normal? Can this be considered progress towards R?
I realize it's a weird question. It's just that we went from no contact to sex...doesn't seem like the way it was supposed to go.
Who knows. I think you just do it if (and as long as) you enjoy it. I started to feel used by my H, and I was kind of right . . . while he did say that it was both emotional and physical for him, he had zero intent of R. But, your sitch could be different. I think that MWD says that ML is always a good thing, as long as you feel comfortable with it. Meaning you are physically and emotionally protected.
I think you are best to go into this with no expectations.Just enjoy yourself and see where it leads, if anywhere.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
