Julie, I agree. and thanks. I guess its not the end of the world. My text was probably a minor annoyance to W and myself at this point . Just keep swimming.

I guess for some reason I saw this whole process unfolding differently than it is. I thought we'd live separate, but communicate and get out some time to kind of figure things out. nothing's going like that. I feel like giving up.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14