wife moved to.parents house last week scared

[paul19510]

looking back on it now....no big deal, but I would have just said Ok thanks. good night. I don't thinks she really cares about my ideas of mutual respect or good faith. But it does bother me that she is taking the kids and not saying something or relying on them to tell me. maybe because the are older, I should just let it go.

I can't seem to do anything that is correct by W. she also told the kids about her moving out without me. Didn't bother her at all. When I found out that she was definitely set to leave on the 5th I said, we should tell the kids . she said, "oh, I already did that...." Feeling stressed. I should have just let it go.