When WAs Come Home (Where do we go from here?)

[cruiserrg]

This is the time the reall DBing starts, once they come home. You really do have to look deep inside yourself.
Start to DB for the R, rather than to get H/W back.

Thats is a great post, and I think this point sums up fairly well what I must do. I even wrote the last line on my monitor to remind me everyday. Thanks for the tip, I DB'ed my W back home, now I need to DB for the relationship. I hope we can get further down this road so it gets easier, for me it seems every day since the move has had a difficult moment or two (read full details in my thread). I do see we are moving every so slightly ahead, I just have to be patient, and hope my W can be with me.

'cause I don't know if I would be able to DB again if she ever left again. Thanks for the inpirational comments.