Thought I would update things here as it's been quite sometime since the last one...Had a nice visit from WAS' family this past weekend. Her daughter's family came to see me and of course the mountains. But just the idea the kids wanted to see me was awesome.
I have had NO contact with WAS. She has made no attempt to contact me thru the holidays other than getting me a letter she recieved back in mid december. I did forward to her here recently a tax related email. I did not say anything just simply forwarded to her. Again, no response or even a Thank you. A few months ago this would of crushed me but no more.
Sandi, you made sense to me when you had said "why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you". How logical is that? VERY....Maybe I have learned to finally accept that it doesn't matter why or the way she left (without saying anything).
What I do know is I did not deserve the way she did it. And that is a fact. After 9 months since her departure, I am beginning to wonder if I should indeed file for divorce myself. The way it was left back in August was that she would "get back to me" on the matter of her filing for divorce. To date there has been nothing no movement no anything.
I am really not sure what to do. Her daughter tells me there has been no OM. I think it would be easier for me to move forward and file myself if there was. If I wait what am I waiting for? Is there any reason I shouldn't file? These are difficult questions to answer.
