2T2M, you need to show your H that you have a life. Obviously, he likes his party life right now and he just cannot fit you in it, or doesn’t want to. But, it looks to me that he doesn’t want to lose you. Do you realize how lucky you are that he still says these words “I love you” to you and acknowledges your anniversary? The majority of posters here don’t get that.

So, I would say that you need to make these news about your exciting life delivered to him somehow. I remember you said that some people at work liked to gossip. Why don’t you use them? Even my DB coach suggested to me to open the Facebook account, so the news about my life would get to H. Unfortunately, H doesn’t have FB either, so there is almost no chance that it will work.

What do you do for GAL?


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state