I question my H’s MLC all the time. I don’t remember him having vacant eyes per se. He was a bit withdrawn and he did have some memory issues, but I thought it was age related. I had some memory issues tool, so for me his memory loss was not that obvious. He did fit into the WAS description, he was fed up, angry and overwhelmed in our M. At the same time there was no known OW. Still is not. So, I’m just getting more and more confused about how MLC applies to my H.
This is a great thread though. Wonka, thanks for starting it. Hopefully I will learn a lot of things here, and hopefully I will be able to see more clearly what applies in my sitch.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state