melissag VIII - but I'm afraid to have no fear!

[labug]

I wrote in my thread today about putting my wedding ring back on. I took it off somewhere in the middle of my sitch after having a temp check conversation with my H in which he said pretty much what your H said, I'm done, can't see us ever getting together again, yes I see you've changed but I don't want to be in a R with you, I don't want to be in a R with anyone...

I went home, took the ring off and really let him go (it's a process). I still had plenty of work to do figuring out who I was and I GALed like never before.

As Cadet says in his initial post, and most of us don't realize initially how true it is, You've been given the gift of time, use it wisely.

You can do this.