If he thinks that's the answer, then he'll act accordingly and find out he's wrong again.
The way I look at it is that the WAS is willingly following a current that flows against you; move in their direction and you'll only push the current faster. He needs to ride this out, get as far downstream as he needs to get before he would *ever* consider swimming back.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
