I don’t think it would be normal if we didn't wonder whether or not our spouse is in MLC. I know I still do sometimes.
For months after her Mom died, the smallest trigger would cause my W to cry. Quite odd coming from a woman who prior to this almost never cried. When I asked her what was wrong, she told me “I don’t know, I can’t explain it”, which I believe was a truthful answer.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
At some point, the fog lifted from me and I started to notice my surroundings...that is the first sign that a person is leaving the MLC--what people term here "leaving the tunnel."
How gradual or quickly was the process of the fog lifting for you?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
