Afraid I have waited too long

[nit84]

Well I am comfortable giving it her after all she is my W but I don't want her to think I am ok with the S. I want to work on things in order to reconcile. But I want her to want to come back not just because she is low on money but because she realizes that I always had a plan if we were to become under-employed and that it would always work out because together we could do anything not just money but everything Babies, home remodeling everything.

We have been separated for almost 7 months. I recently, 3 weeks ago, moved back to the marital home because I felt I could handle it plus I was paying half the bills and not living there so it was time. The W is unhappy but oh well.

A little over two weeks after the S my W lost her job and has been unemployed ever since.

We still have joint accounts and she pays the bills after I transfer my share to her. The only thing I worry about is we have a joint Money Market account that I have been putting money in for about 4 years from every paycheck she does not put any into this account. We always used this money for vacations or car emergencies etc. Since there was no vacation this year it has built up quite a lot she knows I plan on using this to fix up the home.

I don't think she would but technically she is entitled to half of it.

Thanks for responding Paul!