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I bought into the old cliche that MLC is when old men want to buy red Ferrari's and have sex with 20-somethings
For perspective and to further dispel the myth, I've wanted both of those things since I was 13. Still do. Not sure that qualifies me for MLC though. I think it just makes me normal wink

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I told Ms. Wonka about 1-2 months after BD that "something is wrong with me", "I'm not the bad guy here." I felt suffocated and felt like someone had invaded me. The sense of not being in control was very strong in me at that time.
Heard those statements several times before. I think that's what kept me holding on for as long as I did and trying to "help".

I'm glad you decided to post this, Wonk. Interested to hear "the rest of the story".

Peace,
AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."