Ok I need to ask a question

If my W, who is a WAW, all of the sudden starts to be nicer to me but I know it is because she might be running low on money how do I handle this scenario?

I am doing the best job I can at DB and 180's. I am afraid though if she does start to warm up to me a little it is for the wrong reasons that I wont be able to play it cool even though I get what is happening.

What sorta things can I do that will show her that while I feel for the predicament she is in she chose this and must live with the consequences?

I don't mind being a little standoffish but I don't want to take such a hard stance that it pushes her away either.

I cant ask her to go to counseling or to rekindle the R in light of this issue that would amount to emotional blackmail correct?


Just wondering if anybody else has had this happen to them and how you handled it.


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014