LOL! That struck me as funny, but actually you are right. She needs to get her head on straight without that as a distraction. She needs to want that for the right reasons, not as an escape.
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Not sure on MC yet because not sure of her commitment level.
Right again, she hasn't really committed to working on things yet, but when she does be prepared to discuss that as one of your required boundaries.
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AS you are right. Ill back off. Thsnks for the reminder. So easy to fall into old ways
That's why we're here and why it's good to keep posting You're doing fine, hang in there! Keep giving her time and space and hopefully SHE will come to YOU soon to discuss the M.