Here is what I wish I did before I was in the situation you are in RIGHT NOW- What are your boundaries? Define YOUR "game over" in your mind (and stick to it)and continue on this wild ride......
I did not. I was so damn scared of losing my family that I was "agreeing" to some pretty ridiculous things. I was a spineless loser.
She is at the point of no return right now- knowing this, remember that you need to co-parent with her the next 8 years and get yourself through this process so that you dont need years to recover financially and emotionally on the back end!
Well Im not just rolling over and dying, I can tell you that. The house is a pre-marital asset, so she cant have it and Im not giving it up. Im fine with splitting everything else 50/50 even my 401k, (not that I have a choice) We lived fairly modestly, and do not have alot of fancy or high end material. Just your normal household items.
Im not following what you mean by "boundaries" and "GAME OVER". Could you explain?
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14
