If I have learned anything from getting a divorce, it is that a person who is not willing to have intimate conversations is not a good candidate to be in a relationship. Because if there is no intimacy, there will eventually be no relationship.

I made a big mistake out of ignorance, but I have learned.

If you are already in such a relationship, as I was, you are SOL until someone changes or leaves.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.