I love your lists. Are they helping you stay focused on goals?

I have been thinking about the ring thing a lot. I love my rings but the M that they represent doesn't exist anymore. I am thinking of going to buy myself something pretty for my other hand to represent my commitment to myself and my integrity.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15