Thanks for the advice, I was thinking along similar lines, that perhaps these would be better sent post divorce rather than now. The reasoning being if I send them now, it might be seen as manipulative or trying to influence the situation. If they are sent post divorce, they might be better received with less questioning as to my motivation. I think writing them was a good step, but I'll hold off on sending them as you noted.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14