Back Again!!

[mj0221]

What's been going on with you this past week? How are things going? I'm guessing kids are back in school and back to regular hectic routine? I know mine is and it's somewhat crazy because a year ago all help from H stopped. Luckily my parents live 30 min away so they come over every morning at 6 so I can go to work and they take D11 to school and pick her up. Do you have help from friends or family? I started last year also relying on a group of moms at gymnastics. Since they are there so long, I don't stay up there as much, and go home and rest, much needed.

I'm still working on the GAL....how bout you? It is difficult when we are the main care providers but I know it's needed.

I think we just have to live like as it's us for good. Our H are gone so no use planning anything with them in mind. I finally opened bank account in my own name, everything in my own name. I'm not about to have 2014 be like 2013, the worst year of my life.
I have made a lot of lifestyle changes, cut out unnecessary things, changed plans on things so I could afford everything. I think the last of it is deciding to sell house which I'm still undecided.

Ignore your H's crazy behaviors. He truly sounds a little nutty right now. Was him not working normal behavior before BD? If not I would say he is really lost. Just focus on you.