W has pulled back a little in the last couple days. I found myself immediately wondering why and going down a negative thought process. My instinct is to also pull back...I fight with that.
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I'm curious on others take on a R talk.
As a quick recap, the last R talk we 4 months ago at which point she basically told me she didnt feel like working on the marriage and she wasn't afraid to lose me.
Shortly thereafter she did a big 180 and our marriage has been much much better (see my above post).
I find myself wanting to ask her "what has changed since then"? "how could you think that way such a short time ago when it seems like you think the opposite now"?
How long do I wait to have another R talk? Or do I even bring it up and just go from her actions?
To be honest, even though the last couple months have been great, I'm still nervous about having a R talk.
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
