Melissa- sending you giant hugs this morning. The last few days I have been reminding myself to go back to a beginners mind. The loving H and best friend you used to know would never have that conversation via text. The person he is at this moment would. That is not to say he won't change into a different person again but right now this is the one you have to deal with.
My H told me 1x at the very beginning of this that he wanted to be free and thought I understood that to mean "I am done and want a D"
3 is right. Not what you wanted to hear right now but knowing where he stands is better than limbo. Now you can truly move forward and do what you need to do for you.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
