Nieghbors H text me to ask why I hadn't been around much lately. Kept it upbeat and Told him all the sports and stuff lately.
Great response! Whatever you tell friends/ family WILL get back to W, so you want it to sound like you're busy busy busy. What you want to get back to your W is that you're living your life whether with or without her.
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This process is not easy, but I am working forward. I'm. Not perfect at it, but I am better than I would be if I hadn't Used these techniques and the boards. If nothing else happens, I am at least keeping my self esteem and dignity by not begging etc and I am getting healthier sooner.
Good. You are still very early in the process, so be patient with yourself. You're still going to cycle through emotions, just when you feel like you're doing OK you will suddenly find yourself despondent again, that's just a normal part of the grief process. Hang in there!
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My W has distanced throughout the M. Now she's. Just made it more official. I wonder if she'll. Ever come around. I guess that's. The big question
We would all love to know that, then we would know whether to keep standing or cut our losses, move on and look for love elsewhere. Unfortunately there's no crystal ball, so you have to decide how long to stand. Personally I think everyone should give it at least a year, it's pretty uncommon for things to turn around in less than a year. Plus the LBS needs a good year to find stability again and to get to a point where they can think clearly about where they want to go from there.
