I guess its all up to whether your ready to drop the rope or not.
Are you in a hurry to get the divorce over with? Do you think a friendly communication will help one way or the other.
Since its not really going one way or the other, would waiting a little bit more really hurt anything at this point?
Are you ready to say goodbye, or is it just frustration?
The choices are simple. The answers aren't difficult. Time and patience, the mother of all evils at times.
I personally, would wait until she came to me, if I was still holding on, even if it was just a little. Be in NO HURRY to get it over with one way or the other.
Like you said, the holidays are over, there will be a lot less stress. You prob have until July, your anniv. that will be another stress point for you. A LOT could happen between then and now. Why be in a hurry unless you just don't want to do it anymore.
Its alright to not know yet, hell that's part of the process, we get tired, we get frustrated, we even get impatient. Your not supposed to have all the answers, just the time and patience to let yourself off the hook for needing it now.
We'll talk soon buddy, hang on if you still feel like, i'll be here either way for you.
