A lot has changed since this thread. My H has moved out and says he is not with OW anymore. Is adamant he wants a divorce and will not be coming home, ever ever! H is living with a friend for free right now but it's been 1 1/2 months. I am sure he is going to have to pay sometime. We can't afford it. My H has thrown himself into work 12 hrs a day 6-7 days a week. I am sure to occupy his mind. I see no evidence of OW but he has a work phone now. However, he has not been out of town to see her (married) or his family where OW lives.
Anyway, I am not sure about confronting..I did but that is me. I tried to tell OW husband but couldn't reach him. Probably for the good. I did confront OW and she was afraid of me and told my H.
We have had UGLY fights the last month. I have been working hard to get a grip and not. H pushes my buttons and so do I. I am working really hard at defusing the fights and end it if starts up. H always says he wants to get a long and not fight but we always seem to. It is my NY resolution!!! Don't worry about hijacking. Maybe you can get some help for both
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
