Are you in separate rooms? This will determine separation/valuation date. This has very important legal consequences. Sorry to tell you this but it is important. Otherwise she can spend, sell, move funds etc all she wants. You need statements and proof of all values as of separation date. Please ask lawyer about this. It was key in our mess and only got worse as we were in the same house for 14 months until it sold. She will be getting advice from not just her lawyer. Even if the relationship is not conjugal, you need separate spaces. Please, please, please don't make my mistakes and those who's advice I did not heed.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
