Wow, Ambivalent. My dad had his crisis when I was in college. I have long forgiven, but never forgot. They are still married and I don't know how because it was a long road for them. Many years of back and forth. I know that as I have gone through all of this, he has been quiet at times because he did the same thing to his wife. He did make it through and truly loves and cares for my mom. He takes care of her as she is not very mobile but he did put us all through so much. I have never looked at him with the same eyes since it all happened. But he is a good person now...not the selfish man he was in crisis.

Thank you for your words of support. I really appreciate it!


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