Night is always the toughest. Kids go to bed.....soon thereafter the wife goes to bed. She stays up for a couple hours reading or watching programs on her iphone.
Then I just sit in the living room for a couple hours then head off to bed. So lively during the day, we talk and interact but all because of the children. Once they are in bed, no reason to speak much.
Least she won't be moving out. But that could be double edged as it doesn't give her much space. I could perfectly practice d'bing but even so, can't compare to us being separated. Which of course in itself could go either way......
I am not moving out any time soon. So if everything stays the same and the divorce proceeds, somewhere down the road about 6 months, we will have to look at living arrangements again.
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6
